HERE I did a rather depressing blog post about the decline of sexual desire in middle aged women, and the contributing factors. But never fear! Sexual desire and frequency is rebounding in elder women. Everyone has heard the anecdotes of STD’s rampant in nursing homes, of infidelity among the retirement communities. That may be an exaggeration, but sexual activity and desire are far more culturally acceptable and encouraged among seniors than they have been in the past. Continue reading
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Over the Hill? Sexual Desire in Middle Aged Women
As much as I hate to spread the news, studies show that sexual desire negatively correlates with age in women. Also in length of relationship. For those readers who don’t get all hot and bothered over a multivariate regression analysis, that means the older a woman gets, the less she wants sex. And the longer she is in a relationship, the less she wants sex with her partner. We’re not alone in the last one. Men also show less interest in sex the longer they are in a relationship with someone. But it’s not just age that contributes to lack of desire in middle aged women. Continue reading
Kids
Everyone else is watching It’s A Wonderful Life, or Charlie Brown Christmas, and I’m watching a movie about teens who spend every waking moment having sex, doing drugs, and stealing. And every non waking moment passed out between a toilet and a bathtub in a flophouse. I blame Sweetie, who has taken control of my Netflix queue and inexplicably orders these movies during what should be a cheerful holiday season. Continue reading
Biology and Romance – a Writer’s Perspective
Love has many dimensions, all of them intense and powerful. A parent’s love for a child. That bond between soldiers in the trenches. Siblings. Close friends. But there is a particular punch that happens with romantic love. What biological and psychological factors play into romance, and how can writers create believable characters in a romantic situation? In psychology, there are typically three concepts that come to play in romantic love: Attachment, Sex, and Caregiving. An individual can still have very strong feelings of love without all three of these, but in what is typically defined as romantic love, all must be present. How do these factors relate to each other, and what truly makes up what we call romantic love? Continue reading